He v. She The family picture is on his desk - Ah, a solid, responsible family man. The family picture is on her desk - Um, her family will come before her career. His desk is cluttered - He's obviously a hard worker and a busy man. Her desk is cluttered - She's obviously a disorganized scatterbrain. He is talking with his co-workers - He must be discussing the latest deal. She is talking with her co-workers - She must be gossiping. He's not in the office - He must be meeting a customer. She's not in the office - She must be out shopping. He's having lunch with the boss - He's on his way up. She's having lunch with the boss - They must be having an affair.